Adekunle Gold regrets 'Damn Delilah' tribute to ex-girlfriend
Adekunle Gold regrets ‘Damn Delilah’ tribute to ex-girlfriend
Renowned Nigerian singer Adekunle Gold has opened up about his regrets over writing “Damn Delilah,” a poignant song about his ex-girlfriend who broke his heart. The song, featured on his debut album “About 30,” has been a cornerstone of his musical journey, encapsulating his raw emotions and personal heartbreak.
The Origins of “Damn Delilah”
In celebration of the sixth anniversary of his debut album, Adekunle Gold took to social media to reflect on his artistic milestone. On Sunday, May 27, he shared the album cover on his X (formerly Twitter) handle, captioning it: “Happy 6th Anniversary to my beautiful piece of Art. About30.”
A fan’s comment, “Delilah will never forget this album,” prompted Adekunle Gold to reveal his lingering regrets about the song. “She passed. Sometimes I feel bad for making that record,” he responded, indicating a sense of remorse over immortalizing his heartbreak in music.
The Story Behind the Heartbreak
Curious fans pressed the singer for more details, and Adekunle Gold obliged, sharing the backstory of “Damn Delilah.” He explained, “You people. I have told the story many times. Anyway, I was in a relationship with a girl who had a boyfriend (I didn’t know). Me I don fall, but the babe dey play me. Long story short, one Saturday morning, I got a threatening call from a random guy saying I should back off, I should never speak to his woman again. I called the babe immediately, she don block me everywhere. Lol. I got so heartbroken and made Damn Delilah.”
A Tale of Deception and Heartbreak
Adekunle Gold’s story reveals the depth of his emotional turmoil. Unaware that his then-girlfriend was already in a committed relationship, he found himself deeply invested in a deceptive romance. The shock of receiving a threatening call from her actual boyfriend and the subsequent abrupt end to their relationship left him devastated. This intense emotional experience fueled the creation of “Damn Delilah,” a song that resonated with many fans for its raw portrayal of heartbreak.
Reflection on Artistic Expression
The singer’s reflections on “Damn Delilah” highlight the complex relationship between personal experiences and artistic expression. While the song has been celebrated for its emotional depth and authenticity, it also serves as a painful reminder of a tumultuous period in Adekunle Gold’s life. His regret suggests a nuanced understanding of how art, while cathartic, can also perpetuate the memory of past wounds.
The Impact of “About 30”
“About 30,” released in 2018, marked a significant moment in Adekunle Gold’s career. The album, blending Afropop, highlife, and contemporary sounds, established him as a formidable talent in the Nigerian music scene. “Damn Delilah” stood out as one of the most emotionally charged tracks, drawing attention to his ability to convey personal stories through music.
Fan Reactions and Support
Fans have continued to express their support for Adekunle Gold, both for his candidness and his musical talent. The revelation of his regret has sparked a dialogue about the emotional toll of creative work and the personal sacrifices artists make. Many fans have praised him for his honesty, while others have expressed empathy for his heartbreak.
Moving Forward
As Adekunle Gold reflects on his past, he also looks ahead to his future projects. His evolution as an artist is marked by a deepening maturity and a willingness to explore new themes and sounds. Despite the pain associated with “Damn Delilah,” the song remains a testament to his ability to turn personal adversity into compelling art.
